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MY PARTNER THINKS I'M AUTISTIC (NEURODIVERSE)
BUT I DON'T AGREE
- I don't really even understand what autism is, or neurodiversity, but I don't think something is wrong with me.
- I don't really want coaching/counseling - I don't think it's going to help.
- I'm feeling blamed for our relationship problems but my partner is also part of the problem.
- I don't want my relationship to end, but I don't know how to prevent that.
I THINK MY PARTNER IS AUTISTIC (NEURODIVERSE)
- I need help getting my partner to see that he/she's autistic.
- I'm thinking of leaving this relationship and I'm looking for help as a last resort.
- I need help figuring out if my relationship can be saved.
- I'm looking for help for myself in my neurodiverse relationship.
I THINK I'M AUTISTIC (NEURODIVERSE)
- I've never been diagnosed, and I'm interested in understanding more about my traits & characteristics.
- I need help communicating with my partner.
- I need help getting my partner to stop criticizing and blaming me.
- I need help understanding how to meet my partner's needs.
- I am worried that my partner is thinking of leaving me.
So, your partner thinks you're autistic and you're feeling pressured...
and l bet you really don't like:
- Being criticized
- Being uncertain
- Being surprised
I want you to know:
- I don't believe in finger-pointing, or that one person is "the problem" in a relationship.
- Your uncertainty is totally valid - I've got answers to your questions.
- I want to help you avoid surprises.
- Get to know me FIRST. Get instant access to my video library and see for yourself exactly who I am and how I coach.
- Take the neurodiversity quiz. Get a score that shows if your traits are similar to autistic individuals.
3 Logical Reasons to See Me
If you Believe You Are NOT Autistic
My career is dedicated to working exclusively with autistic individuals and neurodiverse couples, which equates to seeing endless varieties of traits and characteristics of autism in adult men and women. I will provide you, and your partner, an informed opinion that you can trust. Instead of spending years disagreeing with your partner about this, get answers and begin real work on repairing your relationship.
Your partner thinks you're autistic, and your relationship is in serious trouble. In my experience couples like yourself are on a downward spiral and it's a matter of when your relationship will end, not if it will end. My expertise positions me to assess your relationship with precision, and to provide personalized guidance to meet your individual needs and goals as a couple.
Similar to a sports coach, I will sometimes be tough and direct. Unlike therapy, coaching is not for the primary purpose of exploring and sharing emotions - it is about identifying problems and implementing solutions.
LEADING WORLD EXPERT
IN AUTISM RELATIONSHIPS
20 YEARS PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE
LIFETIME PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
I have helped neurodiverse individuals and couples for over 15 years and have been in my own autism relationships my entire life.
LIFE-ALTERING COMMUNICATION MODEL
My 4-stage model of communication gives you the insight and tools to finally understand each other.
YOU CAN'T FIX A PROBLEM YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND
YOU'LL RECOGNIZE YOUR RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS IN MY PRIVATE VIDEO LIBRARY
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"Wow, I honestly feel like a different person. I am gaining confidence and taking control of my happiness, my future, and my family. "
J. K.
Neurotypical Spouse - Married 12 years
"I have been lost for years and didn’t know where to find help. I’ve got that now thanks to you."
P. C.
Neurotypical Partner - Together 8 years
"This is unlike other coaching/counseling I have had and feel that it has been very productive."
G. P.
Asperger's Spouse - Married 24 years
"I finally feel like there is some direction to work towards."
M. H.
Neurotypical Spouse - Married 23 years
"My wife and I thought I had Asperger's and it turns out I don't. You helped us figure that out and fix the issues in our relationship that were actually causing us problems. "
J. K.
Neurotypical married to Neurotypical - 19 years
"Your advice is already paying dividends in just a few weeks. Thank you so much!!"
R. B.
Asperger's Spouse - 7 years
Hi, I'm Jodi Carlton.
For me, spectrum relationships are personal!
In my own autism marriage, I felt so misunderstood. I felt hopeless and confused. I felt ashamed that I couldn't fix my marriage. I tried hard, but my marriage ended after 19 years of marriage.
I have other personal autism relationships with people I love dearly and I wanted to understand what makes them difficult.
So, I discovered the key.
It is my great joy to share with people every day how to unlock the full potential of their partner relationships, but also their relationships with ALL the people in their lives!
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*The diagnostic term for "Asperger's" was replaced with "Autism - Mild/Level 1" in 2013 by the American Psychiatric Association in the publication of the DSM-5. Many clinicians and individuals also reference it as "High Functioning Autism." We use all of these terms interchangeably on this site.
