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NOT JUST ANOTHER THERAPY SESSION

Hi, I'm Jodi, an expert at helping people with relationships in distress.

  • when one or both of you believes autism or neurodiversity is present.

FINALLY GET ANSWERS SOLUTIONS FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP - FOR YOUR LIFE!

 

I'M READY FOR SOME HELP - SHOW ME THE WAY! I'M NOT SURE ABOUT THIS.

                                                          

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MY PARTNER THINKS I'M AUTISTIC

BUT I DON'T AGREE

  • I don't want to go to coaching/counseling.
  • I'm feeling blamed for our marriage problems.
  • I don't want my relationship to end, and I don't know how to prevent that.
THIS DESCRIBES ME

I THINK MY PARTNER IS AUTISTIC

  • I need help getting my partner to see he/she's autistic.
  • I'm about to leave this relationship and I'm looking for help as a last resort.
  • I'm looking for help for myself in my neurodiverse relationship.
THIS DESCRIBES ME

I THINK I'M AUTISTIC

  • I've never been diagnosed, and I'm interested in clarity about my traits & characteristics.
  • I need help for myself in my relationships.
  • I need help getting my partner to understand me.
THIS DESCRIBES ME

So, your partner thinks you're autistic and you're feeling pressured...

and l bet you really don't like:

  1. Being criticized
  2. Being uncertain
  3. Being surprised

I want you to know:

  1. I don't believe in finger-pointing, or that one person is "the problem" in a relationship.
  2. Your uncertainty is totally valid - I've got answers to your questions.
  3. I want to help you avoid surprises.
    1. Get to know me FIRST.  Get instant access to my video library and see for yourself exactly who I am and how I coach.
    2. Take the neurodiversity quiz. Get a score that shows if your traits are similar to autistic individuals.
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I GET WHY YOU DON'T WANT TO BE HERE

AND I DON'T BLAME YOU. IN THIS VIDEO I EXPLAIN WHY.

3 Logical Reasons to See Me

If you Believe You Are NOT Autistic

My career is dedicated to working with hundreds of autistic individuals and couples a year, which equates to seeing endless varieties of traits and characteristics of autism in adult men and women. I will provide you, and your partner, an informed opinion that you can trust.  You can continue to spend years disagreeing with your partner about neurodiversity, or you can get answers and begin real work on repairing your relationship.

Your partner thinks you're autistic, and your relationship is in serious trouble.  In my experience couples like yourself are on a downward spiral and it's a matter of when, not if, your relationship will end.  My relationship expertise with some of the most difficult relationships in the world (neurodiverse relationships) positions me to assess your relationship with laser sharp precision, and to provide individualized guidance to meet your individual needs and goals as a couple.

Similar to a sports coach, I will sometimes be tough and direct.  Coaching is not for the purpose of exploring emotions - it is about identifying problems and implementing solutions.

                                                        

LEADING WORLD EXPERT

IN AUTISM RELATIONSHIPS

20 YEARS PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE

LIFETIME PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

I have helped neurodiverse individuals and couples for over 15 years and have been in my own autism relationships my entire life. 

 

LIFE-ALTERING COMMUNICATION

REAL communication results for your relationship.

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What is a Spectrum Relationship?

It means one or both of you have traits of autism (neurodiversity).

 

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"Wow, I honestly feel like a different person. I am gaining confidence and taking control of my happiness, my future, and my family. "

J. K.
Neurotypical Spouse - Married 12 years

"I have been lost for years and didn’t know where to find help. I’ve got that now thanks to you."

P. C.
Neurotypical Partner - Together 8 years

"This is unlike other coaching/counseling I have had and feel that it has been very productive."

G. P.
Asperger's Spouse - Married 24 years

"I finally feel like there is some direction to work towards."

M. H.
Neurotypical Spouse - Married 23 years

"My wife and I thought I had Asperger's and it turns out I don't. You helped us figure that out and fix the issues in our relationship that were actually causing us problems. "

J. K.
Neurotypical married to Neurotypical - 19 years

"Your advice is already paying dividends in just a few weeks. Thank you so much!!"

R. B.
Asperger's Spouse - 7 years

Hi, I'm Jodi Carlton.

For me, spectrum relationships are personal!

In my own autism marriage, I felt so misunderstood. I felt hopeless and confused. I  felt ashamed that I couldn't fix my marriage.  I tried hard, but my marriage ended after 19 years of marriage.

I have other personal autism relationships with people I love dearly and I wanted to understand what makes them difficult.

So, I discovered the key.   

It is my great joy to share with people every day how to unlock the full potential of their partner relationships, but also their relationships with ALL the people in their lives!

HEAR MY FULL STORY

*The diagnostic term for "Asperger's" was replaced with "Autism - Mild/Level 1" in 2013 by the American Psychiatric Association in the publication of the DSM-5.  Many clinicians and individuals also reference it as "High Functioning Autism."  We use all of these terms interchangeably on this site.

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I'm glad you're reaching out.

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We look forward to hearing from you.

Jodi and the Spectrum Support Team