ENJOY YOUR HOLIDAYS!
Reduce the stress of the holidays this year by equipping yourself with some easy-to-use strategies.
These FIVE tools for partners and couples in neurodiverse relationships are CRUCIAL for you to have the best holiday yet!
GET MORE THAN JUST ANOTHER ROUND OF THERAPY
If you and your partner have really different ways of thinking, feeling, socializing, and using language…YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE!
Hello! I'm Jodi Carlton.
I'm a "MIXED NEUROTYPE" relationship expert. That's a fancy term that simply means "different brain types."
These differences can cause MAJOR problems in your relationship.
I've got answers & solutions for you.
"There are just no therapy models that help couples who have totally different hard-wired brain differences….
my own marriage struggled, and ended, after 19 years…8 therapists didn't recognize our differences.." Jodi Carlton, M.Ed
SO I FIGURED OUT WHAT WORKS AND CREATED A PROGRAM TO HELP YOU!
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MY PARTNER THINKS I'M AUTISTIC (NEURODIVERSE)
BUT I DON'T AGREE
- I don't really even understand what autism is, or neurodiversity, but I don't think something is wrong with me.
- I don't really want coaching/counseling - I don't think it's going to help.
- I'm feeling blamed for our relationship problems but my partner is also part of the problem.
- I don't want my relationship to end, but I don't know how to prevent that.
I THINK MY PARTNER IS AUTISTIC (NEURODIVERSE)
- I need help getting my partner to see that he/she's autistic.
- I'm thinking of leaving this relationship and I'm looking for help as a last resort.
- I need help figuring out if my relationship can be saved.
- I'm looking for help for myself in my neurodiverse relationship.
I THINK I'M AUTISTIC (NEURODIVERSE)
- I've never been diagnosed, and I'm interested in understanding more about my traits & characteristics.
- I need help communicating with my partner.
- I need help getting my partner to stop criticizing and blaming me.
- I need help understanding how to meet my partner's needs.
- I am worried that my partner is thinking of leaving me.
So, your partner thinks you're autistic and you're feeling pressured...
and l bet you really don't like:
- Being criticized
- Being uncertain
- Being surprised
I want you to know:
- I don't believe in finger-pointing, or that one person is "the problem" in a relationship.
- Your uncertainty is totally valid - I've got answers to your questions.
- I want to help you avoid surprises.
- Get to know me FIRST. Get instant access to my video library and see for yourself exactly who I am and how I coach.
- Take the neurodiversity quiz. Get a score that shows if your traits are similar to autistic individuals.
3 Logical Reasons to See Me
If you Believe You Are NOT Neurodivergent
My career is dedicated to working exclusively with autistic individuals and neurodiverse couples, which equates to seeing endless varieties of traits and characteristics of autism in adult men and women. I will provide you, and your partner, an informed opinion that you can trust. Instead of spending years disagreeing with your partner about this, get answers and begin real work on repairing your relationship.
Your partner thinks you're neurodivergent, and your relationship is in serious trouble. In my experience couples like yourself are on a downward spiral and it's a matter of when your relationship will end, not if it will end. My expertise positions me to assess your relationship with precision, and to provide personalized guidance to meet your individual needs and goals as a couple.
Similar to a sports coach, I will sometimes be tough and direct. Unlike therapy, coaching is not for the primary purpose of exploring and sharing emotions - it is about identifying problems and implementing solutions.
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HI, I'M JODI CARLTON
FOR ME, NEURODIVERSE RELATIONSHIPS ARE PERSONAL
IN MY OWN NEURODIVERSE RELATIONSHIP I FELT SO MISUNDERSTOOD
I FELT HOPELESS AND CONFUSED.
I felt ashamed that I couldn't fix my marriage. I tried hard, but my marriage ended after 19 years of marriage.
I have many other personal neurodiverse relationships with people I love dearly and I wanted to understand what often makes them so difficult, but also how to make them fulfilling for both of us.
It is my journey every day to seek greater understanding of myself and my loved ones. Through my own personal relationships, and my years of work with neurodivergent individuals, I've discovered the key to so many pieces of the puzzle!
It is my great joy to share with people every day how to unlock the full potential of their own personal fulfillment in life, starting with getting clarity and insight about themselves and their partners. I am a straight shooter which means I don't promise magical fixes for any relationship.
My pledge to you is that I will give you my authentic, and expert insights about your relationship, but also about each of your traits and characteristics, and what you each are bringing to your relationship.
As a human being I am genuine, compassionate, and non-judgmental. As a coach, I will guide you in identifying your goals for yourself and your relationship and will expertly walk you through the steps of change necessary to get where you want to be.
"Wow, I honestly feel like a different person. I am gaining confidence and taking control of my happiness, my future, and my family. "
J. K.
Neurotypical Spouse - Married 12 years
"I have been lost for years and didn’t know where to find help. I’ve got that now thanks to you."
P. C.
Neurotypical Partner - Together 8 years
"This is unlike other coaching/counseling I have had and feel that it has been very productive."
G. P.
Asperger's Spouse - Married 24 years
"I finally feel like there is some direction to work towards."
M. H.
Neurotypical Spouse - Married 23 years
"My wife and I thought I had Asperger's and it turns out I don't. You helped us figure that out and fix the issues in our relationship that were actually causing us problems. "
J. K.
Neurotypical married to Neurotypical - 19 years
"Your advice is already paying dividends in just a few weeks. Thank you so much!!"
R. B.
Asperger's Spouse - 7 years
*The diagnostic term for "Asperger's" was replaced with "Autism - Mild/Level 1" in 2013 by the American Psychiatric Association in the publication of the DSM-5. Many clinicians and individuals also reference it as "High Functioning Autism." We use all of these terms interchangeably on this site.
