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THIS 5-STEP METHOD HAS BEEN

LIFE-ALTERING

FOR PARTNERS AND COUPLES

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STEP 1 (FREE)


Start using the simple system that is helping others like you DRAMATICALLY decrease the frequency, and intensity, of disagreements and conflict with your partner.


This FREE Battle Buster System is Step 1 of 5 in the "Crack the COMMUNICATION Code" Method.

When I started using this strategy in my own autism spectrum relationship...

... it turned massive blow-ups that lasted DAYS...and created GAPING wounds in on our relationship...

...into SMALL irritations, and MINOR conversations that were OVER in less than minutes.

Now I teach this same strategy to my coaching clients every day, plus hundreds of individuals and couples in my groups and social media channels.


 

STEP 2 (FREE)


Here, in STEP # 2, you will dive deeper into what actually CAUSES conflict.  

You probably have a long list of what you believe is the root of your conflict, which likely includes a lot of what your partner could do differently!

Chances are, though, you're still misunderstanding the true underlying reason you are fighting.  Not many couples, especially neurodiverse couples, truly know the root cause of their disagreements - and therapists won't teach you (I know this because I am a trained therapist). 

In this 45-minute webinar, I'll teach you what you've never been told about conflict.   

BONUS:  I'm also going to give you a sneak peek into STEP # 3, THE 4-STAGE COMMUNICATION HACK.

STEPS #1 and # 2 will help you reduce the conflict so you are READY for STEP # 3, which is where your relationship will undergo a MASSIVE transformation. 


 

STEP 3

- $115 USD

- CLICK HERE to pay $95 for Step 1-3 Bundle (BONUS: Also receive the Spectrum Straight Talk Video Library with your bundle!)

(All steps are included with the Intensive Coaching Package or discounted 50% with "By The Session" Private Coaching)


In this multi-module self-paced course, you will discover the 4 STAGES OF COMMUNICATION that I have uniquely identified as essential, and foundational, for SPECTRUM COUPLES to effectively HEAL old relationship wounds, FINALLY understand each other, and GROW into a CONNECTED and FULFILLING relationship.

You will be guided through the exact pitfalls that shut down communication, and begin implementing skills that have helped other couples turn their relationship around from the brink of divorce to fulfilled and thriving.

This self-study course includes:

  • 33 page handbook
  • 5 course modules
  • Over 4 hours of video training (recordings of the group coaching calls from Step 5 - Implement & Upgrade)
  • The FULL curriculum (including slide presentations)

In this Self-Study Course you will:

  1. Discover WHY most communication breaks down before it even starts - WHY this happens and HOW to fix it.
  2. Learn HOW to HEAR and be HEARD.
  3. Dramatically decrease the frequency of arguments.
  4. Learn to quickly mediate disagreements with mutually acceptable solutions.
  5. Increase joint decision-making.
  6. Decrease power-struggles.
  7. Decrease criticism and resentment.
  8. Increase affirmation and validation.
  9. Increase your CONNECTION as a couple.

 

BUNDLE STEPS 1, 2, and 3

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STEP 4

- $500 USD

(All steps are included with the Intensive Coaching Package or discounted 50% with "By The Session" Private Coaching)


In this 6-week live coaching group with Jodi Carlton and other partners/couples, master and implement the four stages of communication that you learned in Step 3.

WHEN: Step 4 is offered approximately once per quarter - enrollment is open ONLY to individuals and partners who have completed Steps 1 through 3.

HOW: Weekly LIVE ZOOM calls with Jodi Carlton and other members (will be recorded for replay, and accessible through your coaching portal access)

** 2 BONUS Zoom Calls

The never-ending cycle of misunderstanding and conflict results in: 
  • Avoidance 
  • Resentment 
  • Hurt
  • Disconnection 
This 6- week coaching group will result in:
  •  Clarity
  •  Relationship Safety
  •  CONNECTION

 
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STEP 5 (FREE)


Maintain your new relationship skills, and continue to grow and learn - FOR LIFE!

This final step is not a specific course, a webinar, or a coaching group - this step is designed to support you well into the future.

Step 5 will help you maintain your new skills for the rest of your life.  

  • Return and participate in any future coaching group sessions.
  • Have access to the coaching group recordings for watch/listen on demand.
  • Participate in periodic zoom coaching calls with Jodi that are exclusively for Step 5 partners and couples.  

This 5-Step communication program doesn't end when you've completed the modules and participated in the coaching group. 

It takes time to put all of your new skills into practice. 

You will fall back into old habits.  This is normal and expected. 

Step 5 is for the purpose of supporting you along the way as you stumble…and cheering you on as you get up and grow even more!

 

COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO CONNECTION

BUT NEURODIVERSE COUPLES DON'T SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE

"Every conversation ends up in a fight."

R.S. - Autistic spouse

"Now we just barely talk."

K.P - Neurotypical spouse

"We're roommates, at best."

J. M. - Neurotypical spouse

"The constant criticism is awful. Sometimes I just hide from her."

A. P. - Autistic Spouse 

"I just want to be heard"

C. M. - Neurotypical Spouse

"I want to understand what she needs from me."

R.M. - Autistic Partner

"I want us to be be close and connected!"

T. M - Neurotypical Spouse

YOU CAN'T FIX A PROBLEM THAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND.

SO LET'S CHANGE THAT.

IT'S FREE TO START

PERCEIVING IS BELIEVING

This is perhaps THE BIGGEST cause of PAIN and DISCONNECTION in autism spectrum relationships.

Putting it simply..

We all assign meaning to conversations and interactions from our own point of view.

Autistic partners often fail to recognize that partners have their OWN perspective.

Neurotypical partners often assign the WRONG meaning to their partner's behavior and actions.

Both partners contribute to the painful disconnect.

Autistic partners BELIEVE their own perceptions to be truths, or facts, without recognizing the perspective, opinions, and feelings of their partners.

Because of this, autistic individuals PERCEIVE CRITICISM in conversations where partners present different perspectives or opinions. The MEANING they take away is "I was attacked." "I'm being criticized."

Neurotypical partners PERCEIVE CONTROL or ABUSE...GASLIGHTING. The MEANING they take away is "I am not valued. I am not loved," or "I'm being manipulated and abused."

Autistic partners often respond with anger, meltdowns, or shut-downs, and shut-outs. Future interactions may be AVOIDED. The gap between you has been widened.

Neurotypical partners feel deeply hurt, confused, and desperate for acknowledgment, affirmation and validation. They may share their pain in the hopes that their partners will at least care that they're hurting.

But, the the cycle repeats from the beginning.

And BOTH partners - who actually love and care for each other - have unknowingly reinforced the gap that is widening between them.

The STARTING point in BREAKING this cycle is UNDERSTANDING the stages of COMMUNICATION and FIXING the BREAKDOWN.

Most couples have NO IDEA HOW to communicate, and this is CRITICAL in AUTISM SPECTRUM RELATIONSHIPS.



 You will:

  1. Discover WHY most communication breaks down before it even starts - WHY this happens and HOW to fix it.
  2. Learn HOW to HEAR and be HEARD
  3. Dramatically decrease the frequency of arguments.
  4. Learn to quickly mediate disagreements with mutually acceptable solutions.
  5. Increase joint decision-making.
  6. Decrease power-struggles.
  7. Decrease criticism and resentment.
  8. Increase affirmation and validation.
  9. Increase your CONNECTION as a couple.
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IN MY OWN AUTISM RELATIONSHIPS I FELT SO MISUNDERSTOOD.

  • I was accused of being critical (and I didn't understand why).

  • I felt hopeless and confused.  

  • I thought I was losing my mind.

  • I felt ashamed that I couldn't fix my relationship.  I felt angry.  I felt HURT!

  • Sometimes I even had moments of uncharacteristic rage that shocked and scared me.

  • I tried hard.  I requested talks so we could figure things out.  My autistic partners both hated the talks, though.

BOTH OF THESE RELATIONSHIPS TAUGHT ME THAT COMMUNICATION IS A CRITICAL FOUNDATION.

  • My marriage of 19 years to the father of my children ended, after multiple attempts for help with different counselors.  I  realized years later that he is on the autism spectrum.

  • The other relationship with a man on the autism spectrum ended after 2.5 years.

  • I also learned that I was going about it all wrong and I figured out why.

NOW MY CAREER IS DEVOTED TO HELPING MEN AND WOMEN

FIX THEIR OWN AUTISM SPECTRUM RELATIONSHIPS 

So, I created this COMMUNICATION TRANSFORMATION program to help individuals and couples in autism spectrum relationships FIX THE COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN.

...and instead learn to CONNECT.

GET STARTED TODAY - IT'S FREE!

Hi I'm Jodi!

You've found your way here, so that tells me you are confused. If you're in a long-term relationship, you're hurting. Maybe you don't even know much about the autism spectrum, and you're pretty scared - because a lot of what you've read online is daunting.

You want so badly to be happy, and to have the great relationship that you imagined - but, you're wondering if those hopes and dreams will ever become a reality.

I understand you.  I've been there, myself - and I've met countless men and women who are in relationships like yours.  You are my people and I'm here to help.

I look forward to helping you discover a whole new world of possibility in your relationship and in your life!

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M.C. (Neurotypical)

This communication program has been a total game changer in our marriage!

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R. T. (Autistic)

This is giving us such a specific way to figure out where we're getting off track.  I didn't know I wasn't hearing my wife.  Now I know HOW to listen to her.

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L.H. (Neurotypical)

I wish we'd known all of this 20 years ago!