STEP 4: IMPLEMENT & UPGRADE (RELATIONSHIP 2.0)

$500 (ENROLLMENT HAS CLOSED)

SPACE IS LIMITED!

  • WHEN: Wednesdays, 4 - 5:30 pM EDT, beginning JAN 5th, 2022 (6 WEEKS)
  • (We will announce the next session of this coaching group here when the dates/times are determined.)
  • HOW: Weekly LIVE ZOOM calls with me, Jodi Carlton, and other members (will be recorded for replay, and accessible through your coaching portal access)
  • 2 BONUS Zoom Calls at 4 pm EDT (MONDAY JAN 17th and JAN 31st)
  • WHAT: Includes downloadable presentation slides and a 33-page downloadable workbook
 
ENROLLMENT IS CURRENTLY CLOSED

In this coaching group, along with other couples, Jodi will help you:

  • Discover WHY most communication breaks down before it even starts - WHY this happens and HOW to fix it.
  • Learn HOW to HEAR and be HEARD
  • Dramatically decrease the frequency of arguments.
  • Learn to quickly mediate disagreements with mutually acceptable solutions.
  • Increase joint decision-making.
  • Decrease power-struggles.
  • Decrease criticism and resentment.
  • Increase affirmation and validation.
  • Increase your CONNECTION as a couple.

COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO CONNECTION

BUT AUTISM SPECTRUM COUPLES DON'T SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE

"Every conversation ends up in a fight."

R.S. - Autistic spouse

"Now we just barely talk."

K.P - Neurotypical spouse

"We're roommates, at best."

J. M. - Neurotypical spouse

"The constant criticism is awful. Sometimes I just hide from her."

A. P. - Autistic Spouse 

"I just want to be heard"

C. M. - Neurotypical Spouse

"I want to understand what she needs from me."

R.M. - Autistic Partner

"I want us to be be close and connected!"

T. M - Neurotypical Spouse

YOU CAN'T FIX A PROBLEM THAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND.

SO LET'S CHANGE THAT.

THIS PROGRAM CHANGES LIVES!

Don't just take our word for it! 

Listen to this chat with Michele about how this coaching group saved her marriage to Dave.

"What if I haven't finished the first 3 steps?"  

It's okay! 

Lots of people prefer to skip the self-paced courses in Steps 1- 3 and go through the curriculum with Jodi in this coaching group.

NOT READY FOR A COACHING GROUP?

Some couples dive straight in to participate in the live coaching group. 

If you're not ready for a group setting yet, you aren't the only ones! 

CLICK BELOW TO GET THE STEPS 1-3 BUNDLE

PLUS I'LL ALSO GIVE YOU ACCESS TO THE SPECTRUM STRAIGHT TALK LIBRARY (CLOSE TO 100 OF MY VIDEOS).

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR BUNDLE
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YOUR COACHING GROUP CURRICULUM

 


WEEK 1

Let's Get Acquainted

Introduction to the FOUR STAGES OF COMMUNICATION.


WEEK 2

STAGE ONE of Communication: 

What we BRING to a Conversation

Our beliefs, values, definitions, cultural influences, goals, expectations, etc.
This is the stage that is the MOST overlooked and where a LOT of breakdown occurs.

You will learn to identify pitfalls BEFORE they happen.


WEEK 3

STAGE TWO of Communication:

HOW we INTERACT

Body language (non-verbals); Vocal Tone; Approach; Assertive/Aggressive; Criticism; Avoidance

You will discover HOW to speak and listen in a way that connects versus disconnects; engages versus disengages; unites versus shuts down.


WEEK 4

STAGE THREE of Communication:

The MEANING we take away.
Filters, Assumptions, Misinterpretations, Clarification

Many couples leave a conversation with totally different interpretations and understandings of what was said. This leads to massive confusion and future conflict. 

You will discover HOW to ensure you both are CLEAR and have SHARED MEANING.


WEEK 5

STAGE FOUR of Communication:

How we REMEMBER (RECALL) a conversation
Current mood, Interference, Intent, Motivation

Our memory is influenced by our current emotional state, but also subsequent interactions or new information.

You will learn to recognize these influences in how you recall your conversations with your partner.  This will GREATLY decrease conflict about what was said previously, and improve "in the moment" communication. 


WEEK 6

Wrap-up

How you will INTENTIONALLY apply what you've learned going forward.

You will develop a strategy for your own accountability as an individual.

IN MY OWN SPECTRUM RELATIONSHIPS I FELT SO MISUNDERSTOOD.

  • I was accused of being critical (and I didn't understand why).

  • I felt hopeless and confused.  

  • I thought I was losing my mind.

  • I felt ashamed that I couldn't fix my relationship.  I felt angry.  I felt HURT!

  • Sometimes I even had moments of uncharacteristic rage that shocked and scared me.

  • I tried hard.  I requested talks so we could figure things out.  My autistic partners both hated the talks, though.

BOTH OF THESE RELATIONSHIPS TAUGHT ME THAT COMMUNICATION IS A CRITICAL FOUNDATION.

  • My marriage of 19 years to the father of my children ended, after multiple attempts for help with different counselors.  I  realized years later that he is on the autism spectrum.

  • The other relationship with a man on the autism spectrum ended after 2.5 years.

  • I also learned that I was going about it all wrong and I figured out why.

NOW MY CAREER IS DEVOTED TO HELPING MEN AND WOMEN

FIX THEIR OWN NEURODIVERSE  RELATIONSHIPS 

So, I created CRACK THE COMMUNICATION CODE  to help individuals and couples in spectrum relationships FIX THE COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN.

...and instead learn to CONNECT.

Hi I'm Jodi!

You've found your way here, so that tells me you are confused. If you're in a long-term relationship, you're hurting. Maybe you don't even know much about the autism spectrum, and you're pretty scared - because a lot of what you've read online is daunting.

You want so badly to be happy, and to have the great relationship that you imagined - but, you're wondering if those hopes and dreams will ever become a reality.

I understand you.  I've been there, myself - and I've met countless men and women who are in relationships like yours.  You are my people and I'm here to help.

I look forward to helping you discover a whole new world of possibility in your relationship and in your life!