THIS IS WHAT IS HELPING OTHER INDIVIDUALS, and COUPLES JUST LIKE YOU
A 6-week coaching group created to help you go from PAINFUL FIGHTING to CONNECTED COMMUNICATION.
STEP 4: IMPLEMENT & UPGRADE (RELATIONSHIP 2.0)
ENROLLMENT IS NOW CLOSED - WE'RE FULL!
- WHEN: Wednesdays, 4 - 5:30 p EST, beginning OCT 6TH, 2021 (6 WEEKS)
- HOW: Weekly LIVE ZOOM calls with me, Jodi Carlton, and other members (will be recorded for replay, and accessible through your coaching portal access)
- 2 BONUS Zoom Calls at 4 pm EST (MONDAY OCT 18TH AND MONDAY NOV 1ST)
- WHAT: Includes downloadable presentation slides and a 33-page downloadable workbook
- Also includes reply archives from previous coaching group sessions
In STEP 4 you will:
- Discover WHY most communication breaks down before it even starts - WHY this happens and HOW to fix it.
- Learn HOW to HEAR and be HEARD
- Dramatically decrease the frequency of arguments.
- Learn to quickly mediate disagreements with mutually acceptable solutions.
- Increase joint decision-making.
- Decrease power-struggles.
- Decrease criticism and resentment.
- Increase affirmation and validation.
- Increase your CONNECTION as a couple.
Let's Get Acquainted
Introduction to the FOUR STAGES OF COMMUNICATION.
STAGE ONE of Communication:
What we BRING to a Conversation
Our beliefs, values, definitions, cultural influences, goals, expectations, etc.
This is the stage that is the MOST overlooked and where a LOT of breakdown occurs.
You will learn to identify pitfalls BEFORE they happen.
STAGE TWO of Communication:
HOW we INTERACT
Body language (non-verbals); Vocal Tone; Approach; Assertive/Aggressive; Criticism; Avoidance
You will discover HOW to speak and listen in a way that connects versus disconnects; engages versus disengages; unites versus shuts down.
STAGE THREE of Communication:
The MEANING we take away.
Filters, Assumptions, Misinterpretations, Clarification
Many couples leave a conversation with totally different interpretations and understandings of what was said. This leads to massive confusion and future conflict.
You will discover HOW to ensure you both are CLEAR and have SHARED MEANING.
STAGE FOUR of Communication:
How we REMEMBER (RECALL) a conversation
Current mood, Interference, Intent, Motivation
Our memory is influenced by our current emotional state, but also subsequent interactions or new information.
You will learn to recognize these influences in how you recall your conversations with your partner. This will GREATLY decrease conflict about what was said previously, and improve "in the moment" communication.
How you will INTENTIONALLY apply what you've learned going forward.
You will develop a strategy for your own accountability as an individual.
NOT READY FOR A COACHING GROUP?
Some couples dive straight in at Step 4 to participate in the live coaching group...BUT the couples who have gotten the MOST out of the coaching group completed Steps 1-3 first.
CLICK BELOW TO GET THE STEPS 1-3 BUNDLE.
IN MY OWN SPECTRUM RELATIONSHIPS I FELT SO MISUNDERSTOOD.
I was accused of being critical (and I didn't understand why).
I felt hopeless and confused.
I thought I was losing my mind.
I felt ashamed that I couldn't fix my relationship. I felt angry. I felt HURT!
Sometimes I even had moments of uncharacteristic rage that shocked and scared me.
I tried hard. I requested talks so we could figure things out. My autistic partners both hated the talks, though.
BOTH OF THESE RELATIONSHIPS TAUGHT ME THAT COMMUNICATION IS A CRITICAL FOUNDATION.
My marriage of 19 years to the father of my children ended, after multiple attempts for help with different counselors. I realized years later that he is on the autism spectrum.
The other relationship with a man on the autism spectrum ended after 2.5 years.
I also learned that I was going about it all wrong and I figured out why.
NOW MY CAREER IS DEVOTED TO HELPING MEN AND WOMEN
FIX THEIR OWN NEURODIVERSE RELATIONSHIPS
So, I created CRACK THE COMMUNICATION CODE to help individuals and couples in spectrum relationships FIX THE COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN.
...and instead learn to CONNECT.
Hi I'm Jodi!
You've found your way here, so that tells me you are confused. If you're in a long-term relationship, you're hurting. Maybe you don't even know much about the autism spectrum, and you're pretty scared - because a lot of what you've read online is daunting.
You want so badly to be happy, and to have the great relationship that you imagined - but, you're wondering if those hopes and dreams will ever become a reality.
I understand you. I've been there, myself - and I've met countless men and women who are in relationships like yours. You are my people and I'm here to help.
I look forward to helping you discover a whole new world of possibility in your relationship and in your life!